In my opinion,these things matter..
在我看来，幸福的生活是……
1 Listening enough to care and caring enough to listen.
学会倾听，因为倾听是关爱的一种方式。
2 Being a dreamer but not living in a dream world.
有所梦想，但不要沉溺于梦境。
3 Saying"It doesn't matter"and meaning it.
说句“没关系”，并使其有真正意义。
4 Being a positive influence in any way possible,to as many as possible,for as long as I possibly can.
尽可能使更多的事物产生积极影响。
5 Balancing justice with mercy and fairness with commonsense.
以仁慈评判正义，以常理评判公正。
6 Being patient and patiently enduring.
不急不躁，永不言弃。
7 Earning credibility instead of demanding compliance.
努力赢得别人的信任而非更多的服从。
8 Valuing the wisdom of discernment,the danger of pleasure without restraint,and the joy of victory with integrity.
重视培养洞察力，不冒险纵情欢娱，懂得适可而止，以平和的心态面对胜利的喜悦。
9 Being worthy of trust and trusting what's worthwhile.
懂得信任的价值并信赖一切值得信赖的事物。
10 Enjoying all things small and beautiful.
善于欣赏所有小而美的东西。
11 Words that help.
以言语帮助他人。
12 Words that heal.
以言语安慰他人。
13 And words that encourage.
以言语鼓励他人。
14 Forgiving myself for what I've done and others for what they haven't.
宽恕自己之已所为，原谅他人之不知之为。
15 Gaining what I desire without losing what I should gain.
以不失去应得之物为前提获得所想之物。
16 Maintaining the passion of purpose while avoiding the pit falls of making hasty decisions with little or no discernment.
勇往直前，永葆激情，不鲁莽武断，凡事深思熟虑。
17 Watching"You've Got Mail"one more time.
不断地重温“已收邮件”。
18 Enjoying life for all it holds instead of holding out for all it has yet to become.
享受生活所能给予的一切，而不将生活的一切据为己有。
19 Giving praise without demands and encouragement without expectatipns.
赞美他人而无所求，鼓励他人而无所图。
20 Hugs.
热爱生活。
21 Healing wounds.
修复伤痛。
22 And helping people realize their dreams.
帮助他人实现其梦想。
23 Knowing when I can,can't and shouldn't.
懂得什么时候能，什么时候不能，什么时候不应该。
24 Laughter for the sake of laughter.
该笑则笑。
25 Leading while not forgetting hoe to follow.
好人为师，但不忘以人为师。
26 Honoring the honorable and avoiding the painful errors of the disgraceful.
崇尚光荣，避免因耻辱而抱憾终生。
27 Knoeing the power of commitnent,the rewards of self-discipline and the meaning of faith in myself and others.
明白承诺的分量，自律的回报，以及相互信任的意义。
28 Smile--lots of them.
多一分笑容。
29 Learning as much as I can for as long as I can.
尽其所能，博览广识。
30 Standing for what's right when everything's wrong,and saying "I'm wrong"when something's not right.
当一切成为谬误，坚持真理，并勇于承认自己所犯之错。
31 Leting the music play.
用音乐陶冶自己。
32 Knowing I can and seeking help when I can't.
做自己能做的，不能做时，要寻求他人的帮助。
33 Just doing nothing at just the right time.
适当得放松自己。
34 Filling my mind with all that is excellent,truthful,full of hope,and worthy of thinking about again.
让优秀、真理、希望、有价值的思想充溢大脑。
35 Kisses that say"I love you"more than"I need you"
不因需要特而亲吻他，而因爱他而亲吻他。
36 Treasuring ideas for their untapped potential.
珍视尚未开发的潜能。
37 Caring.
懂得关爱。
38 Giving.
懂得付出。
39 And having fun.
学会寻找快乐。
40 Refusing to believe lies about myself or others regardless of the sourse--including what I hear from within.
拒绝相信自己或他人的任何谎言--包括道听途说之言。
41 Trusting enough to see good people without blindly trusting in the goodness of all people.
不盲目相信所有人的善良，但相信人性本善。
42 Success without self-absorption.
珍惜成功，而不只顾自己的利益。
43 Showing I know the difference between keeping the rules and listening with understanding.
懂得遵守规则与用善解人意的心去倾听之间的区别。
44 Winning with dignity.
以人格取胜。
45 Losing with grace.
败不失雅。
46 And learning from both.
从失败和胜利中吸取教训。
47 Believing in all my possibilities--and yours too!
相信自己能行，别人也能行。
48 Appreciating the wisdom of maturity and the beauty of childhood.
欣赏智者的成熟之美与孩子般的天真之美。
49 Avoiding the bondage of bitterness,the deceit of wealth without character,and the vanity of pride without gratefulness.
切勿被苦难所束缚，切勿被毫无来由的财富所蒙蔽，切勿目空一切。
50 Loving for all I'm worth because in the end it's worth it all.
爱值得爱的，因为最终它可以带来丰厚的回报。
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